HOW TO KNOW HE’S YOUR SOULMATE

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The universe has a mysterious way of connecting people together, some easily recognize this connection, while some don’t. Majority of women have met their one true love, and didn’t recognize him. They’ve married someone not destined for them. Do you want to know why there are lots of divorces in the world? I’m sure you already figured that out, but in case you haven’t, there are whole lot of divorces because people married who are not destined for them. Men and women are in a union that is not ordained by God, that results to millions of broken homes. However, there’s a solution for this, and that’s recognizing your soul mate.

These are some familiar signs that you’ve noticed, but don’t pay attention to;

Chemistry:

This is usually the easiest to recognize, is a connection everyone wishes to experience at some point. However, most people don’t care about chemistry at the early stage of dating, they have reasons to believe that is not necessary to have a connection on the first or second date. Hence, they continue with the relationship, expecting this feeling to develop in time. Chemistry is a powerful bond, and psychological interaction between two people. It’s not something that develops, is an instant connection, and it shouldn’t be ignored.

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Understanding:

To understand who you are newly involved with could take time, and can be challenging at first. So many relationships don’t usually work because of lack of understanding. When you find someone who easily understands you, your needs, your moods, someone who gives you space when you need it, and doesn’t fight you over irrelevant issue, don’t let him go. I know a couple who fight over a color of a new carpet, and don’t speak to each other for weeks!

Handling serious problems will be a setback for such couple, they are obviously not right for each other, and will have difficulty dealing with bigger issues in the future. Don’t get me wrong, is natural to have fights, misunderstandings and differences with your significant other. Nevertheless, how both of you deal with these differences shows you can tolerate each other and work things out effortlessly without hurting one another.

Spiritual Connection:

Believe it or not, there’s a higher power out there that connects us together. Meeting someone who has the same spiritual belief as you, and can connect with you on a spiritual level is rare. That doesn’t imply every man who has the same spiritual belief as you is meant for you, it just narrows it down and makes it easier for you to meet the right person. Physical attraction is common, and can be deceitful.

Confusing love with lust happens all the time when the foundation of such feelings is built on physical appearance and intimacy. Thus, this attraction is completely different with spiritual connection, because you can see right through each other, you complete each other sentences, and can break through any obstacles together when spiritually connected.

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Love:

Love is a powerful bond that goes deeper than attraction, and lust. It’s pure, and unconditional. Everyone wants to experience true love; unconditional love is rare and it never hurts. Loving someone with all your heart, and being loved by same person is magical. Love grows, and gets stronger as time goes on. Most people don’t experience love at first sight, it doesn’t always work that way because you may fall in love with his appearance, but not his character and true self. Still, it differs for everyone. It’s important you recognize true love, and not confuse it with lust. Spending quality time with him is advisable, you don’t really know someone until you spend lots of time with him.

Sexual Compatibility:

Most couples prefer to wait until marriage before having sexual intercourse, although I’m not against it, and I think is responsible to wait. On the other hand, I think is sensible to be sexually compatible with a man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Not being compatible can lead to sexual frustration and cheating, which is destructive. Sex is deep, is beyond physical and it creates a strong bond between the two people involved.

It can be complicated if you enjoy different things from your partner, some people are passionate, while some are not. Some are wild, kinky, while some are gentle. Therefore, this is something you need to explore and find out before marriage, or you could wait and find out after getting married. That being said, stick to the option that you are comfortable with, and makes you happy.

Happiness:

We all want to be with someone who makes us happy, that’s the fact. Happiness is priceless, you can be with someone who loves you, but doesn’t makes you happy. Although, being happy with your significant other is something you can work on, you can suggest things you like to do.

Happiness comes from within; you can’t depend on somebody to make you happy at all times. In order to have a successful and long-lasting union, you must love yourself. And be satisfied with who you are as a person. Then, everything else comes easily. Partnership is about complementing each other; your partner should be able to put a smile on your face if you truly love him and you’ve already find your inner peace and satisfaction.

Commitment:

Commitment is like the middle thread holding everything else together, without commitment, relationship will fail. The goal is finding a person who understands the significance of commitment, and he takes it seriously. Love brings two people together; commitment makes their bond last forever. In this modern day, most men wants to change partners like underwear, they are emotionally unavailable and afraid to commit. So, when you find someone who wants to let you in completely, and commit wholeheartedly, he’s a keeper!

Conclusion:

Finding your one true love can be really difficult, I personally believe true love will find you when you are ready for that special person that’s destined for you. Focus on yourself, your career and be contented with who you are. Self-love should be your number one priority, practice self-love, appreciate oneself, and grow into someone you love. Learn how to give love to, and receive love from people that you care about. Prepare yourself for this journey by living a healthy lifestyle, and true love will find you soon.

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