HOW TO BE UNFORGETTABLE

Posted On July 15, 2020

You can be beautiful, sexy, loving, caring and still be forgettable. You have to make an impact in someone’s life to become unforgettable, hence is more than just your physical appearance. In this article, I will give you 10 tips on how to be unforgettable to a man. It can be from the first date, second date, or someone you are already involved with. What is unforgettable? As the name implies, unforgettable means impossible to forget. When you are constantly in someone’s mind, his thoughts, you are unforgettable.

Here are 10 ways to be unforgettable:

1. Be Presentable:

Men are different from women, they look forward to an attractive and beautiful woman on a first date, the chit chat, and perfect personality can occur later. They fall in love with what they see at first, and that love grows when they are secure and comfortable with who you are. So, always look nice, especially on the dating stages. Your hair should be on fleek, and dress classy and sometimes a little sexy.

2.    Communication:

Communication gets you closer to someone. The more you acquaint with him, the more he gets comfortable with you. Remember the saying “Out of sight, out of mind”? If you want to be unforgettable, you have to be in his mind. Therefore, keep in touch and meet up with him as often as you can.

3.   Be fun/adventurous:

Be open to do something fun, and spontaneous occasionally. Go dancing if he likes to dance, hiking, travelling, sight-seeing, movies are fun stuff to do together. Although, it depends on who you’re involved with. Some individuals prefer to stay home, order in and watch a movie. Does that sound fun? Yes, it does, the point is to enjoy each other’s company when you spend time together.

4.    Be an Open book:

Hiding stuff, and being secretive can make things complicated. I’m not suggesting you reveal all your secrets to him, is wise to keep some secrets to yourself. The fact is, he doesn’t want you to spill everything to him, especially past events with your exes or family issues. A lot of men are not ready for those deep secrets. In other words, open up to him by telling him things about yourself, so he can get to know you, and trust you.

5.   Be expressive about your feelings:

Telling him how you feel is crucial because it defines your relationship with him, and makes him secure enough to let you in. When you are expressive with your feelings, he gets a good vibe that you want to be with him. Tell him “how much you miss him, and how you can’t wait to see him again”. He will be excited when you do that, and looks forward in spending more time with you.

6.   Let him in, but not completely:

If you want to be unforgettable, you have to let him in! But not completely, a little mystery doesn’t hurt. Most men appreciate it when you completely let them in, and they become really satisfied and secure with you. While some find you boring when there’s nothing else to know about you. I’m not suggesting you play games, but be a little bit mysterious if you want to keep him on his toes.

7.   Be a good listener:

Being a good listener shows you are interested in him; He will take note of that, and would love to hangout with you often. Also, you will have a permanent place in his heart if you don’t forget important things about him. Try to keep things that makes you distracted away from you; you shouldn’t be going through your phone when he’s conversing with you. If he’s someone you’re really interested in, listening to him shouldn’t be a task. Laugh at his jokes, make eye contact and respond to every question he asked, then he will be certain you’re present and enjoying his company.

8.   Don’t judge him:

What makes you different from his friends, colleagues, and even his family is that, you accept him for who he is, and not judge him or try to change him. I know it’s not that easy if he doesn’t meet up to your standard, what if you don’t like his long hair and want him to have a haircut? What if you don’t like his outfits? Well, is fine to make suggestions, and point little things out that bothers you, he will appreciate it for being honest, but he will appreciate it more if you accept him just the way he is. And will always keep you in mind as that special person that he can be himself with.

9. Be Optimistic:

Negativity ruins relationship, he will gradually distance himself from you if you are always negative. Try to be optimistic about the future. Have discussions that are relevant, and promising. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you should play nice all the time. On the contrary, you should be honest, practical, and realistic. Nevertheless, try to see the good in him, and in everything you do together.

10. Be real:

He will never forget you if you are real. Being your real self with him is what he wants, admires and will appreciate. Is unnecessary to pretend or brag, that’s a big turn off for a lot of men. If bragging makes you fulfilled, then that’s sad and an obstacle in the way of you finding true friendship and love. Just be real, talk about things that matters to you. Let him see the real you, your flaws, he will love you for being real.

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